Single and confused

So, I have been single for longer then I would like to admit. I am an attractive, hardworking, intelligent woman with a sense of direction. However, I seem to have trouble in this area of my life. It seems to be a common thread for a lot of women I know. The part that confuses me is that I am in love with the idea of being in a relationship but get cold feet when the opportunity presents itself. I want a godly relationship but I’m not exactly sure I know what that looks like. I’m in my early thirties and I’m not getting any younger.




  1. I know what you mean when you say you are in love with the idea of being in a relationship. Many people are. I was too at one time. I think I have been burned too hard in my past marriage. I’m not saying that all men are like my abusive Ex, but I get cold feet too I guess. I long to have a man truly love me for me and not for who they want to change me into. Maybe he’s out there or maybe he’s not. Only God knows. Until that time, good luck to the both of us.

    A friend always,

    • I’m glad I’m not the only one. It is so difficult. The whole idea makes me anxious because its one of the few areas in my life that I can’t control. And everyone who knows me knows I like a sense of structure. Lol.

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